By Alisia Cooper – Founder of The Ekklesia Women Certified Christian Relationship Coach. Are you ready for your Kingdom husband? There are moments in life when we feel unseen, overlooked, or even forgotten — hidden in plain sight. I’ve walked through those seasons too. I remember when I was single, deeply desiring a meaningful relationship. I wasn’t chasing a fantasy; I simply wanted to be known and accepted for who I truly was on the inside. But as I matured in my walk with

By Alisia Cooper – Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach. Have you ever wondered who would really stick around if everything you had was stripped away? Growing up, I saw it all the time—people (myself included) using what they had to gain “friends.” Back in the day, it was almost normal to “buy friendships.” Invite people into your home, show off your nice things, and suddenly—you’re accepted. Or so it seemed. I’ll never forget a situation yea

By Alisia Cooper – Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach, When I stepped into my very first relationship, I truly thought I knew what I was doing. Looking back now, I realize I was gullible, jealous, angry, and driven by emotions I couldn’t control. I didn’t understand myself, and I definitely didn’t understand God’s design for relationships. But now, walking in a fruitful relationship with the Holy Spirit , I see things differently. He’s been

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Have you ever wondered what it truly means to be feminine in God’s eyes—beyond clothes, makeup, or what the world calls beauty? As a little girl, I remember my mother only allowing me to wear dresses. I suppose she believed that was the best way to teach me how to be “feminine.” To her, it was a form of protection—a way to guard me from growing up too quickly. She was teaching me to appear femi

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Have you ever been misunderstood? People misjudged...

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach “What does it really mean to honor God with your body in a world that normalizes compromise?” As a single Christian mother beginning my journey with the Lord, I quickly realized that life in the Kingdom of God is different. There are Kingdom principles that our Heavenly Father has set in place to guide us, protect us, and transform us. His Word reminds us that we were created in His image (Gen

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Sis, don’t settle for red flags when God has green...

Have you ever carried a secret wound from your father that left you asking, “Why me?” By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Growing up as a child around the age of ten, I went outside of the home to play with a few girls in the neighborhood. And while caught up in the game, I was suddenly singled out. I became the topic of their conversation. I heard one of the girls say, “You look just like that girl a few blocks away. You have t

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach This morning as I reflect on Daniel 3:17-18 If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it. But “even if “He does not, we want you to know, Your Majesty, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.”  (Daniel 3:17–18) I remembered years ago, after backsliding, yes, sis—I turned my back on the Lord. Your girl gave up! I

Sometimes God has to strip us of everything He never gave us, just to show us He’s all we ever needed. What I thought was loss became the doorway to my true identity in Christ. Sis, when God calls your name, everything changes! 💖 By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Years ago, I remember living a wretched life—just sinning against God and never even acknowledging that there is a God whose eyes are always upon me (Proverbs

Buy Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Sis, can I ask you something?Are you in that “not yet”...

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach Have you ever tried to explain how you felt, only to find the words just wouldn’t come out? "I thought I knew myself… until marriage revealed a part of me I didn’t even realize was broken. I could love deeply, but when it came time to express my feelings, the words just wouldn’t come. What I didn’t know was that God was about to use my husband’s patience to heal a fear I didn’t even know I had.

By Alisia — Founder of The Ekklesia Women | Certified Christian Relationship Coach I used to believe that if I dressed the part, wore the right wigs, beat my face just right, showed just enough cleavage, and slid into the shortest booty shorts, I could finally get the attention I needed from Mr. Right. But not too  much attention—because I still wanted to seem like a "godly" woman. Smh. I wanted a man of God, even though at the time…I wasn’t even living as a child of God. And